| 第一页：找到折衷点 |
| 第二页：要有幽默感 |
| 第三页：保留自己的（一些）小秘密 |
| 第四页：永不放弃 |
| 第五页：多活几年 |
5. 多活几年。Stay alive
My sister, a doctor, told me about one of her patients, a 92-year-old woman who showed up for her appointment with her husband, who is 94. They said they have been married for almost 70 years.
我姐姐是个医生。她对我讲起自己一个病人的故事。那是位92岁高龄的女士，她每次来看病的时候，94岁的丈夫都陪着她一起来。这对高龄夫妇已经结婚将近70年。
My sister, highly impressed, asked the couple the secret to their union's longevity. And they looked at each other for a long moment. Then the wife spoke: 'Eh, neither of us died.'
我姐姐很是惊讶，问那对夫妻婚姻如此长久的秘诀。他们彼此对望了许久，然后那个妻子说话了：“呃，因为我们俩都还没死。”
