3. It just doesn’t matter.

　　My decision between breakfast cereals wasn’t a biggie. Whichever one I chose, there were never going to be any huge consequences and the ripples from that decision wouldn’t have been felt much further than the end of my spoon. Sometimes it just doesn’t matter which way you go.

　　It’s easy to get wrapped up in second guessing yourself, going round in circles and over-complicating things, when – if you get right down to it – it just doesn’t matter. Going round in circles is only going to make you dizzy, so stop it. Ask yourself this question – if your future happiness wasn’t dependent on your decision (and it isn’t, by the way), which way would you go?

　　3.不要过于纠结

　　我关于早餐吃什么谷类的决定没什么大不了的，无论我选择吃哪一种，都不会产生重大的影响，而且伴随这种决定而来的任何感觉在我最后一勺吃完前早已烟消云散。有时候，选哪一种都没有关系。

　　人们很容易陷入为自己的第二念而动摇中，不断的循环而重复他们的思考，让事情复杂化，特别是当----你必须要做的时候----没有关系放手做吧。陷入循环的思考只会让你头晕，所以不如立刻停止。问你自己一个问题-----如果你的幸福以前不会（现在或者将来也不会）取决于这个决定，你会如何选择？