Engage

　　吸引注意

　　To engage in this case means to communicate with them. Step out of your own ego to get yourself to sincerely talk to them. You may be pleasantly surprised that the other person wants to talk too.To engage also means not to hold any grudges against the other person. Face the issue with the other party and discuss whatever challenges you may have candidly. Say what you mean politely. You can be stern but do not be rude. The important thing about how to work with people you don’t like is to be sincere about it.

　　吸引注意在这种情况下意味着与他们交流。你要放下自尊，真诚地与他们交谈。很可能你会喜悦地发现别人也想与你聊天。吸引注意同时还意味着你不能抱有怨恨他人的想法。与对方一起直面这个问题，坦率地讨论你可能怀有的质疑，婉转地说出你想表达的意思。你可以严肃， 但绝不可以粗鲁。与不喜欢的人共事，重要的一点是态度要真诚。

　　When you are sincere,you are seeking a win-win situation. Think about this, when you engage this person,being sincere is also a transfer of feelings, which means you want the other person to know that you genuinely want tosettle any animosity you have with each other. It helps you in the long run too.

　　当你的态度真诚时，你是在寻求一种双赢的局面。想想看， 当你吸引了这个人的注意时，真诚也会让你的态度感染对方。它意味着你想让对方知道你真的想消除你们之间存在的任何敌意。这个方法从长远来看也是有利于你的。