1. Slowly I start to understand that the relationships between parents and children just mean that the lot by which you are brought together is to constantly watch his figure viewed from behind go and fade away in this life. You stand at the end of the lane and watch him gradually disappear at the corner. And the sight of his back tells you silently that there is no need to catch up with him. “我慢慢地、慢慢地了解到，所谓父女母子一场，只不过意味着，你和他的缘分就是今生今世不断地在目送他的背影渐行渐远。你站在小路的这一端，看着他逐渐消失在小路转弯的地方，而且，他用背影默默告诉你：不必追。”
2. For friends I haven’t met for many years, I find that they have all changed in some features. Some have got sad eyes, some have cruel corners of the mouth, some have happy smiles on their faces and some have looks of going through many hardships. It seems that those great changes of more than ten years they didn’t share with me are indistinguishably written on their faces. It turns out that ages have not really elapsed, they just disappeared in front of us and hidden in our heart, then they slowly change our appearances day by day.
“好多年没有见面的朋友，觉得他们都有一点不同了。 有人有了悲伤的眼睛，有人是冷酷的嘴角，有人是一脸的喜悦，有人却一脸风霜;好像十几年没能与我共度的沧桑，都隐约地写在脸上了。原来岁月并不真的逝去，只是从我们的眼前消失，却躲在我们心里，然后再慢慢地改变我们的容貌。”
3. There is a kind of imbecility of social intercourse. That’s when you are helping others, you are more careful than serving yourself even to think that it’s your duty to do it. On the other hand, you never dare to bother other people. Because you think it’s a pressure to owe gratitude to others and also you are afraid to be declined. This situation gradually turns you into helping others to maintain friendship and always being worried about collapse of your emotional connections. In fact this can also be regarded as an implication of low EQ. After all, people who want to make you feel embarrassed on purpose are not really good enough to be your bosom friends.
“有一种社交低能是，帮别人的忙时，比服务自己更加谨慎，甚至觉得是本分。自己却从不敢麻烦别人，一是欠人情觉得有压力，二是害怕被拒绝。逐渐演绎成靠帮助别人来维持友谊，随时担心感情崩溃。其实这也是情商太低的缘故。毕竟真正为难你的人，也不是什么好人。”
4. Life is a long and enduring process of accumulation. A person’s life will absolutely not be destroyed by a single incident, nor will a life of a person be saved by just an affair. Things you should get will sooner or later go to you. Things you shouldn’t obtain are unlikely to retain for a long time even if you happen to get it by chance.
“生命是一种长期而持续的积累过程，绝不会因为单一的事件而毁了一个人的一生，也不会因为单一的事件而救了一个人的一生。 属于我们该得的，迟早会得到;属于我们不该得的，即使侥幸巧取也不可能长久保有。”
5. To do what you want most, to live in the environment you like, to be peaceful and to stand aloof from worldly success. Does this spoil you yourself? On the contrary, to be a famous surgeon with annual income of 1 million pounds and being married with a beautiful wife. Is this regarded as success? I think that it all depends on how a person looks upon the meaning of life, on how this person thinks about the responsibility he takes for society and the demands he claims for himself.
做自己最想做的事，生活在自己喜爱的环境里，淡薄宁静、与世无争，这难道是糟蹋自己吗?与此相反，做一个著名的外科医生，年薪一万镑，娶一位美丽的妻子，就是成功吗?我想，这一切都取决于一个人如何看待生活的意义，取决于他认为对社会应尽什么义务，对自己有什么要求。
6. The purpose for us to come in this world is not to save people, not to change somebody and not to become somebody, but to experience, throb and enjoy. Our lives are often abducted by all kinds of desires. Sometimes if you can’t struggle to free yourself from some things, you should admit them to be a part of our fate. It’s enough to do what we think is worthwhile with what we learn in all our life. Making the world better if you're rich, otherwise do the best of yourself. Nothing can compare to the emotion “I am totally willing to”. 、
我们来到这个世界上的目的，不是为了拯救谁改变谁以及变成谁，是为了体验、感动、享受。我们的生活会被各种各样的欲望绑架，有些东西没办法挣脱就接纳它是我们命运的一部分，用平生所学做我们自己认为有价值的事情就够了。达则兼济天下，穷则独善其身，什么事情都抵不过“心甘情愿”四个字。
7. Youth is a neuter which represents many shortcomings: lack of experience, unsophistication, and impetuosity. But it also has a lot of strong points, one of which is that you have much time to forget those things you shouldn’t bear in mind.
“年轻是一个中性词，它代表着很多缺点：缺乏经验、少不更事、容易冲动。但是也有很多优点，其中之一就是有大把的时间去遗忘那些不该记住的事情。”
8. I am fond of people who are grateful deep down in the heart and people who travel to a distant place all alone. They know to be grateful to their parents but not to follow blindly. They know to have gratitude for the universe but never fear to go ahead. They know to thank themselves but never indulge in self-admiration. They know to appreciate the help from friends but not to rely on them. They know to be grateful to every grain of seeds and every wisp of cool breezes, and they also know to get up early to sow seeds and get help from winds to go far away.
“我喜欢深存感恩之心又独自远行的人。 知道谢父母，却不盲从。知道谢天地，却不畏惧。 知道谢自己，却不自恋。知道谢朋友，却不依赖。 知道谢每一粒种子每一缕清风，也知道早起播种和御风而行。”
9. I admonish myself that I have talked too much, I have listened too much about others’ complaints, I have drunk too much coffee, I have stayed too much time in strange rooms, my quality of sleeping is too bad, my sober time is too long, I have thought too much about trivial things, I have expected too much, and I console myself too frequently.
“我告诫自己：你的话说得太多，你听别人倾诉得太多，你喝咖啡喝得太多，你在陌生的房间里坐的时间太长，你的睡眠质量太差，你醒着的时间太长，你平庸的事想得太多，你希望过多，你安慰自己太频繁。”
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