Five Ways to Buff Up Your Love Ones

(让爱人心情愉快的五个方法)

1.Acknowledge the big and the little things.

People want to be seen. They want their actions, attitudes, feelings, aspirations, etc. to be noticed and acknowledged. Become a person who notices.

2.Give thanks and appreciation.

Thank somebody for something and they are more likely to do the same thing again or to do something else you can thank them for. Why? Because being thanked feels good. Tell them you appreciate it too.

3.Give just to show appreciation for who they are.

Make a list of what you admire about your partner or another person. Now tell them you don't have to wait for a special occasion. Surprise that special person any time.

4.Take an active interest.

Take a real interest in the things important to your special someone. Listen to him or her and have a conversation about their hobbies, career etc. Learn something new about the topic. It will make them feel understood.

5.Do special things just for them.

Find out what that special person likes. Do they like cards, flowers, foot rubs, special books,or magazines? You may not like or want the same things. That's ok. Do something or give something they like. Make them feel special.

(See how many of these you can practice in one week with special people in your life and watch your relationships and intimacy grow.)