Step 1: Have a policy（制定约会政策）

Have a dating policy. Meeting for a weekday lunch will provide a limited time frame and a safe, public location.

Step1：制定约会政策。周末午餐约会给你提供有限的时间和安全的、公众的约会地点。

Step 2: Be graceful（保持优雅）

Be graceful and keep up your end of the conversation, even if sparks aren’t flying.

Step2 保持优雅。约会期间一定要把谈话进行到底，即使你失去了热情和激情！

Step 3: Remain tactful（保持机智）

Remain tactful. Express disappointment without negativity. Say, “I’m having a good time but I was hoping we’d have more chemistry.” If your date seems nervous and awkward, tell them you’re feeling the same way and suggest ending the date.

Step3 保持机智。不要消极地向对方表达你的失望，你可以换种方式说：“我玩的很开心，但是我一直希望咱们之间能有更多来电的感觉。”如果你感觉约会很紧张很尴尬，就直接告诉对方，然后建议结束这场约会。

Step 4: Be honest（一定要真诚）

Be honest at the end of a bad date and say why you don’t want to go out again. For instance, “You’re nice but we don’t have a lot in common.” Or, “You have interesting things to say but the conversation was more one-sided than I like.”

Step4 一定要真诚。如果你不想约会就向对方说明原因。比如：“你人很好，但是咱们没有共同之处。”或“你是一个善于言谈很有风趣的人，但是我不喜欢每次谈话都由一个人掌控。”

Step 5: Get up and leave（起身离开）

Get up and leave if a date is touchy-feely, rude, abusive, or drunk

Step5起身离开。如果你发现你的约会对象很煽情，粗鲁，酗酒，还等什么，赶紧起身走人！