这是一个一箭双雕的好办法，因为这样做既不会让她感到不适，还会使她对你欣赏有加，尤其是在你和她刚刚认识时。

Test the waters with impeccable manners .

This is a good way to break the touch barrier while making her feel comfortable and appreciated at the same time, especially early on when you're just getting to know each other.