T-1：take a back seat 次要地位

A:Lily thinks that the job takes a back seat to the family after she is married.

A：莉莉认为结婚后家庭为先，工作处于次要地位。

B:She must be a good wife.

B：她一定是一个好妻子。

A:Not necessarily. This is only what she says, not what she does.

A:那也未必，说归说，做归做。

B:I see.

B：我明白这个道理。