T-4：take its toll(of/on) 造成损伤

A:We used to be very friendly, but it seems now that my daughter's marriage has taken its toll of our relationship.

A:我和女儿本来感情很好，可是现在她的婚姻问题却破坏了我们的感情。

B:What do you mean?

B：这话怎讲?

A:I don't like her husband, that bad egg, but my daughter insists on marrying him.

A:我不喜欢她的丈夫，那个坏蛋，但她坚持要嫁给他。

B:She is a grown-up, She can make her own decision.

B：她是个成年人了，她能够自己做决定了。

A:I wish she wouldn't regret for her decision.

A：但愿她不会后悔。