Nowadays, it is commonly held that parents should arrange everything for their children.But is that true? Though many parents regard their children as the apple of parents’ eye. When their children was born, the parents take care of everything for the children. So how to solve the phenomenon is worth paying attention to.

First of all, parents should make some changes in their thoughts. They should consciously develop their children’s ability on their own. What’s more,over-protective parenting is bad for children,they will have no sense of life direction. Last but not least, the parents have to allow the kids to experience life for themselves,and make decisions by themselves, so that they will learn how to deal with the consequences of the choices they make.

By doing so it helps them to become good decision makers and problem solvers so that they can prepare for independence and adulthood.