虽说每个人都是独一无二的，但是心理学家经过大量的调查研究后发现根植于我们童年时期的行为模式同样能够应用到别人身上。也就是说，你可以通过一些心理技巧悄悄地达到自己的“目的”。

是不是很好奇?有木有很兴奋?

那就跟着小编一起走进心理学的世界吧!

1. To find out if a person likes you, pick a word and every time he/she uses this word or synonymous word phrases, nod and smile. If he/she does like you, watch him/her start using the word all the time.

想知道别人喜不喜欢你，那就挑一个词。

每次TA用这个词或者与之意思相同的词组时，你就点头微笑。如果TA确实喜欢你，TA就会一直用这个词。

synonymous 英 [sɪ'nɒnɪməs] 美 [sɪ'nɑnɪməs]

adj. 同义的;同义词的;同义突变的

2. Do you want people to take your words seriously? Every time you tell them something, say that your father taught you this. People tend to believe parents’ advice inherently.

想让别人认真对待你的话吗?

每次你告诉别人事情时，跟他们说这是你父亲告诉你的。人们生性倾向于相信家长的意见。

inherently 英 [ɪnˈhɪərəntlɪ] 美 [ɪnˈhɪrəntlɪ]

adv. 内在地;固有地;天性地

3.Become an ultimate ‘Rock, paper, scissors’ champion! To win at the ‘Rock, Paper, Scissors’ game, right before playing it, ask your opponent a random question. Most of the time your confused friend will throw ‘scissors.’

成为“石头，剪刀，布”的最终赢家!

要赢这个游戏，就得在玩之前随便问你对手一个问题。大多数情况下，你那困惑的朋友会出“剪刀”。

4. If you want people to agree with you, just nod and maintain eyecontact while you’re talking. ‘The nod’ sign means ‘everything I’m saying is true.’ Plus, following social behavior patterns, people tend to nod back.

如果你想让别人同意你，那就在你说话的时候点头并保持眼神交流。

“点头”意味着“我说的每句话都是事实。”此外，遵循社会行为模式的人们倾向于“回点”

5. Have you ever wished the subway wasn’t that crowded in the morning?

In crowded places look right in front of you, in the direction in which you’re going. You will be impressed watching the crowd literally give way to you. This trick is very easy to explain: in crowded places we tend to look other people in the eyes so that we know which direction someone is going. We take the opposite way so not to run into each other.

你是不是曾希望早上的地铁不要那么拥挤?

在拥挤的地方，径直看向你要去的前方。你会惊奇地发现人群为你让路。这个小技巧很容易解释：在拥挤的地方，我们常常会通过看别人的眼睛来知道他们要去的方向。现在反过来，我们让别人看我们的眼睛，但是注意不要撞到别人~

literally 英 ['lɪt(ə)rəlɪ] 美 ['lɪtərəli]

adv. 照字面地;逐字地;不夸张地;正确地;简直

run into遭遇，陷入;撞上，撞到;偶然遇见

6. If you have the feeling that someone is watching you, just yawn and look around. If someone is really stalking you, they will yawn too, since yawning is highly contagious.

如果你觉得有人在看你，那就打个哈欠往周围看一看。

如果真有人跟踪你，他们也会打哈欠的，因为哈欠的“传染性”太强了!

yawn 英 [jɔːn] 美 [jɔn] vi. 打哈欠;裂开

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