take it personally 针对个人；别介意；就是往心里去；计较；对么

【例句】
Take it personally, stay calm and stick to what you had planned to say.
别介意，镇静一点，把你想表达的都表达出来。

If he said that, he didn't expect you to take it personally.
即便他是那样说的，他也并不是针对你个人而言的。