do as you would be done by 己所不欲，勿施于人

【例句】
Bob often teaches him to be patient and restrained, and to do as you would be done by.
Bob常常教导他要隐忍克制，要以己之所欲，施之于人。

Who argued that you should do as you would be done by.
他认为你应该己所不欲，勿施于人。