主播：翩翩老师，Sarrah老师

背景音乐：Get Up

我请客 My treat. / I'm buying.

AA制 Go dutch. / Split the bill.

Pay for what we eat. 支付自己享用的那部分即可。

**Who pays the bill when dating? 谈恋爱的时候，吃饭谁买单?

1.开始谈的时候

When you first start dating, the man should pay. If he is asking her out, he should pay.

第一次约会的时候，男生付钱。

If she asks him out, less pressure for the man.

如果女生邀请男生出来的话，男生压力可能会少一些。

(但通常第一次约会，还是男生付钱更好。)

2.恋爱关系稳定的时候

After awhile, they can take turns.

(Go Dutch – half and half, go back and forth)

可以轮流付钱。

Maybe he pays for big things and she pays for smaller things

(ex. He pays for food, she pays for coffee)

男生会支付一些“大件”，例如饭钱;女生可以付花费少一些的，例如咖啡。

3. 如果女方经常不付钱，会被鄙视吗?

" expensive girl "

(Maybe not everyone will want to date her because they cannot afford to date her.) 可能不是所有人都会和她约会，因为约不起啊约不起。

There is a belief that men should take care of the woman.

人们普遍认为，男人应该照顾女人。

stereotype偏见/成见

It will be a bad date if he says: "Let's split it."

如果这位男生说AA吧，那么这第一次的约会可能也是最后一次了。

There are some other times when we eat out with other people.

**那么在其它场合(各类社会关系中)，谁来买单呢?

1.跟客户、老师、不熟的人等社会关系一起进餐时，谁请客?

business connection/dinner

The company will take the client out to dinner and the company will pay.

维护客户关系，公司买单。

teacher/co-worker

Pay for your own food.

一般情况下，各付各的。

If you don't have any money, you don't go out.

如果没有钱，就不要出去啦。

2.如果有朋友说：晚上一起吃饭吧，他要请客吗?

He doesn't want to eat by himself.

只是不想自己一个人吃饭罢了 -_-!

3.在中国，跟外国人一起吃饭，可以AA制吗?

"How will we pay for this?"or"How do you want to pay for this?"

我们怎么付钱呢?

对方先买单，为了表示礼貌，可以这么说?

"How much do I owe(欠) you? "

4.如果这次朋友请客，需要还人情吗?

规则非常清楚，无关人情。

如果对方说了：这次我请你，下次你请我的话，下次就要还回去。

很少朋友会请客/rare

Don't be afraid to ask the question at the end of the meal.

- "who's going to pay?"/"how do you want to pay for this?"