Today I WiII be Master of My Emotions 做自己情绪的主人
·Warren·
The tides advance;the tides recede. Winter goes and summer comes.Summer wanes and the cold increases.The sun rises;the sun sets.The moon is full;the moon is black.The birds arrive;the birds depart.Flowers bloom;flowers fade.Seeds are sown;harvests are reaped.All nature is a circle of moods and I am a part of nature and so, like the tides, my moods will rise;my moods will fall.
It is one of nature's tricks, little understood, that each day I awaken with moods that have changed from yesterday. Yesterday's joy will become today's sadness;yet today's sadness will grow into tomorrow's joy.Inside me is a wheel, constantly turning from sadness to joy, from exuItation to depression, from happiness to meIanchoIy.Like the flowers, today's full bloom of joy will fade and withers into despondency, yet I will remember that as today's dead flower carries the seed of tomorrow's bloom so, too, does today's sadness carry the seed of tomorrow's joy.
And how will I master these emotions so that each day will be productive?For unless my mood is right the day will be a failure. Trees and plants depend on the weather to flourish but I make my own weather, yea I transport it with me.
And how will I master my emotions so that every day is a happy day, and a productive one?I will learn this secret of the ages:Weak is he who permits his thoughts to control his actions;strong is he who forces his actions to control his thoughts. Each day, when I awaken, I will follow this plan of battle before I am captured by the forces of sadness, self-pity and failure—
If I feel depressed I will sing.
If I feel sad I will laugh.
If I feel ill I will double my labor.
If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent I will remember past success.
If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.
Henceforth, I will know that only those with inferior ability can always be at their best, and I am not inferior. There will be days when I must constantly struggle against forces which would tear me down.Those such as despair and sadness are simple to recognize but there are others which approach with a smile and the hand of friendship and they can also destroy me.Against them, too, I must never reIinquish control—
If I become overconfident I will recall my failures.
If I overindulge I will think of past hungers.
If I feel complacency I will remember my competition.
If I enjoy moments of greatness I will remember moments of shame.
If I feel all-powerful I will try to stop the wind.
If I attain great wealth I will remember one unfed mouth.
If I become overly proud I will remember a moment of weakness.
If I feel my skill is unmatched I will look at the stars.
Henceforth I will recognize and identify the mystery of moods in all mankind, and in me. From this moment I am prepared to control whatever personality awakes in me each day.I will master my moods through positive action and when I master my moods I will control my destiny.I will become master of myself.I will become great.
沃 伦
潮涨潮落;冬去夏来,暑消寒长;日升日落,月圆月缺;雁来雁往;花开花谢,春种秋收。自然界万事万物都处于情绪的循环变化中,而我也是大自然的一部分,所以,我也有如潮水般的情绪,时涨时落。
很少有人懂得,这是大自然的一种愚弄。每天早晨,当我醒来时,心情都与昨天有所不同。昨天的欢乐可能成为今天的悲伤,然而,今天的悲伤可能成为明天的欢乐。在我的内心深处,好像有一个轮子,不断地从悲伤转到欢乐,从狂喜转到绝望,从快乐变为忧郁。就像花儿,今天绽放的喜悦会慢慢消退,变成明天凋谢的绝望,但是我会记住,今天枯萎的花朵同样孕育着明天绽放的种子,正如今天的悲伤也播种了明天的欢乐。
要让每一天都卓有成效,我该怎样控制这些情绪呢?如果我心浮气躁,那么这一天将会在失败中度过。植物树木的繁盛依赖于天气,但我创造着自己的天气,可以随时掌控。
那么我要怎样控制自己的情绪,让每一天都充满快乐和成效呢?我要学会这个千古秘诀:行为受控于情绪的人是弱者,强者只会用行为控制情绪。每天醒来时,我要这样对抗悲伤、自怜、失败的情绪,这样才不会被它们俘虏——
如果我觉得沮丧,就放声歌唱。
如果我感到悲伤,就露出微笑。
如果我身体不适,就加倍工作。
如果我陷入恐惧,就埋头苦干。
如果我自惭形秽,就换上新装。
如果我犹疑不决,就提高嗓音。
如果我囊中羞涩,就想象财富将至。
如果我力不从心,就回忆以往的成功。
如果我自轻自贱,就铭记自己的目标。
从今以后,我懂得,只有能力较低的人才会一直处于最佳状态,而我并非低能者。总有些时候,有些力量企图将我毁灭,但我必须不断地与之对抗。其中失望与悲伤很容易识破,但是,还有其他一些力量往往带着微笑靠近我,并向我伸出友谊之手,而它们同样也能将我毁灭。我同样要与它们抗争,永远不放弃对它们的掌控——
如果我骄傲自负,就追寻失败的记忆。
如果我沉湎享乐,就想想挨饿的过去。
如果我安于现状,就想想竞争对手。
如果我居功自傲,就回想屈辱之时。
如果我自以为是,就试着让风儿止步。
如果我腰缠万贯,就想想那些食不果腹的人。
如果我目空一切,就想想自己怯懦的时候。
如果我不可一世,就抬起头来仰望群星。
从此,我能识别和辨认人类所有情绪变化的奥秘,包括自己的内在。从今以后,无论我的个人情绪如何变化,我都会随时做出积极的行动来控制。一旦我控制了自己的情绪,就掌握了自己的命运,也将成为自己的主人,变得卓尔不群。
核心单词
reap[ri:p]v.收获;获得,得到
exuItation[,egzʌl'teiʃən]n.狂喜;扬扬得意
meIanchoIy['melənkəli]n.忧郁;愁思
permit[pə(:)'mit]v.允许,许可,准许
capture['kæptʃə]v.捕获;俘虏占领 n.俘获,获得
destroy[dis'trɔi]v.毁坏,破坏
reIinquish[ri'liŋkwiʃ]v.放弃;撤出;交出,让与
实用句型
If I feeI poverty I wiII think of weaIth to come.
如果我囊中羞涩,就想象财富将至。
①if 在这里是“如果”的意思,引导一个真实条件句。
②think of想到,考虑,类似的表达还有think about考虑;think over仔细考虑等固定搭配。
翻译练习
1.微言起风波。(grow into)
2.他的一家人全靠他养活。(depend on)
3.经过讨论,他们准备写一篇文章来提出自己的看法。(prepare to)