Daughter and Daughter-in-Law 女儿和媳妇

Two women were chatting in a room, one asked，“How is everything going with your son?”“Oh, don't even mention it, what a huge misfortune！”The woman sighed，“He is poor enough, and married an extraordinariIy lazy daughter-in-law. She doesn't cook, not clean the room, and not look after the children except sleeping all the time.It was my son who brings breakfast to her bed.”

“How about your daughter?”

“She might be lucky.”woman smiled.

“She married a good husband who doesn't allow her to do the housework, and who handle everything all alone. The housework includes cooking, washing, cleaning and looking after the children.What's more, he brought the breakfast to my daughter everyday.”

Considering the same situation, when we look at it from“my”perspective, it will have a different mentaIity.

Stand to looking at other people's position, or at each other's point of view to think of a lot of things as not the case, you can have a greater tolerance, will have more love.

有两个女人在屋里聊天，其中一个问道：“你儿子还好吧？”“别提了，真是不幸哦！”这个妇人叹息道，“他真是够可怜的，娶了个媳妇懒得要命。她不做饭、不收拾屋子、不带孩子，整天就是睡觉，我儿子还要把早餐端到她的床边！”

“那你女儿呢？”

“她命不错。”妇人满脸笑容。

“她嫁了一个不错的丈夫，不让她做家务，他一手包办，煮饭、洗衣、扫地、带孩子，每天早上还把早点端到我女儿的床边！”

试想同样的状况，但是当我们从自己的角度去看时，就会产生不同的心态。

站在别人的立场看一看，或从对方的角度想一想，很多事就不一样了，你可以有更多的包容，也会有更多的爱。