1. What I want in a man (I)

What I want in a man, original list (age 22):

1. Handsome

2. Charming

3. Financially successful

4. A caring listener

5. Witty

6. In good shape

7. Dresses with style

8. Appreciates finer things

9. Full of thoughtful surprises

10. An imaginative, romantic lover.

What I want in a man, revised list (age 32):

1. Nice looking (prefer hair on his head)

2. Opens car doors, holds chairs

3. Has enough money for a nice dinner

4. Listens more than talks

5. Laughs at my jokes

6. Carries bags of groceries with ease

7. Owns at least one tie

8. Appreciates1 a good home-cooked meal

9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries2

10. Seeks romance at least once a week

Notes:

1. appreciate 欣赏

2. anniversary 周年纪念日

我理想中的男人（一）

我理想中的男人——原版（22岁）

1．潇洒

2．有魅力

3．经济上有所成就

4．善于倾听

5．机智、诙谐

6．健康状况良好

7．穿着入时

8．懂得欣赏美好的事物

9．充满创意的惊喜

10．富有想象力、浪漫的情人

我理想中的男人——修订版（32岁）

1．五官端正（有头发者优先）

2．上车帮我开车门，入座帮我拉椅子

3．有足够的钱享用美妙的晚餐

4．少说多听

5．我说笑话的时候他一定要大笑

6．逛街的时候帮我拎包

7．至少有一条领带

8．称赞一顿丰盛的居家晚餐

9．记得我的生日和各种纪念日

10．一周至少制造一次浪漫约会

Useful link:

在西方，绅士风度在现实生活中体现于帮女士拉开车门，入座时帮女士拉椅子，乘电梯时帮女士按所到楼层的按钮等。