Maria Shriver recalled traveling to a convent after ending her marriage to ex Arnold Schwarzenegger. Find out what she learned during her visit.
Maria Shriver 回忆起结束与前阿诺施瓦辛格的婚姻后前往修道院的经历。了解她在访问期间学到了什么。
 
The hills are alive with words of enlightenment, according to Maria Shriver.
据玛丽亚·施赖佛 ( Maria Shriver ) 说，山丘上充满了启蒙的话语。
 

 
The journalist reflected on her high-profile divorce from ex Arnold Schwarzenegger during the Feb. 6 episode of the Making Space with Hoda Kotb podcast, sharing that she visited a cloistered convent soon after the split "to be in silence and look for advice."
这位记者 在 2 月 6 日的Making Space with Hoda Kotb播客中回顾了她与前 阿诺德施瓦辛格的高调离婚，并分享说她在分手后不久访问了一个与世隔绝的修道院“保持沉默并寻求建议”。
 
Describing the experience as "a scene out of The Sound of Music," Shriver recalled how the convent's Reverend Mother helped open her eyes and find a new outlook on life.
施赖弗将这段经历描述为“音乐之声中的一幕”，她回忆起修道院的圣母如何帮助她睁开眼睛，找到新的人生观。
 
"The Reverend Mother there said to me at the very end, she said—and I actually have written about this, but I haven't shared—she said, 'I think you came here looking for permission,'" Shriver shared, before referencing Julie Andrews' role in the iconic film. "She says, 'You can't come live here, but you do have permission to go out and become Maria.' I was like, sobbing."
“那里的圣母在最后对我说，她说——我实际上已经写过这件事，但我没有分享——她说，‘我认为你来这里是为了获得许可，’”施赖弗分享道，之前参考了朱莉·安德鲁斯 ( Julie Andrews ) 在这部标志性电影中的角色。“她说，‘你不能住在这里，但你可以出去成为玛丽亚。’ 我当时想，在抽泣。”
 
The 67-year-old went on to explain how she realized her full potential after that profound conversation. "I had never given myself permission to feel, to be vulnerable, to be weak, to be brought to my knees, and the world did it to me," Shriver told host Hoda Kotb. "And then I was like, 'Okay, God, let's go. I'm gonna take this and learn everything I can about my role and what I need to learn.'"
这位 67 岁的老人接着解释了在那次深刻的谈话之后，她是如何充分发挥自己的潜力的。“我从来没有允许自己去感受、脆弱、虚弱、屈服，而这个世界却对我做了这样的事情，”施赖弗告诉主持人霍达·科特 ( Hoda Kotb )。“然后我就想，‘好吧，上帝，我们走吧。我要接受这个，尽我所能地了解我的角色和我需要学习的东西。’”
 
Shriver and Schwarzenegger, 75, announced their split in May 2011. The two share kids Katherine, 33, Christina, 31, Patrick, 29, Christopher, 25.
75 岁的施赖弗和施瓦辛格于 2011 年 5 月宣布分手。两人共有孩子凯瑟琳，33 岁， 克里斯蒂娜，31 岁，帕特里克，29 岁， 克里斯托弗，25 岁​​。
 
Soon after news of their separation broke, Schwarzenegger admitted to fathering son Joseph Baena, now 24, with former family housekeeper Mildred Baena, whom he had an affair with during his marriage to Shriver. At the time, Schwarzenegger said in a statement, "There are no excuses and I take full responsibility for the hurt I have caused. I have apologized to Maria, my children and my family. I am truly sorry."
在他们分居的消息传出后不久，施瓦辛格承认了现年 24 岁的父亲 约瑟夫·巴埃纳与前家庭管家 米尔德丽德·巴埃纳的关系，他在与施莱弗的婚姻中与他有染。当时，施瓦辛格在一份声明中说：“没有任何借口，我对我造成的伤害负全部责任。我已经向玛丽亚、我的孩子和我的家人道歉。我真的很抱歉。”
 
The former couple, who finalized their divorce in 2021, have maintained a cordial relationship since their breakup. Most recently, they reunited to celebrate their son Patrick's birthday in September.
这对前夫妇 于 2021 年完成离婚， 自分手后一直 保持着亲切的关系。最近，他们在 9 月重聚 庆祝儿子帕特里克的生日 。
 
Looking back, Shriver—who is cousin to Caroline Kennedy, the daughter of late President John F. Kennedy and First Lady Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis—said she often felt "invisible" living in the shadow of someone else.
回顾过去，已故总统约翰·肯尼迪 (John F. Kennedy ) 和第一夫人 杰奎琳·肯尼迪·奥纳西斯 (Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis ) 的女儿 卡罗琳·肯尼迪 (  Caroline Kennedy ) 的表妹施赖弗 (Shriver)说，她经常觉得生活在别人的阴影下是“隐形的”。
 
"I would find myself getting angry at people who came up and didn't acknowledge that I existed when I was standing next to Arnold, or when I was standing next to my uncle or somebody," she shared on the podcast. "And then I [realized] they were teaching me a lesson that it's not about whether they see me. Do I see me? Am I visible to me?"
“当我站在阿诺德旁边，或者当我站在我叔叔或其他人旁边时，我会发现自己对那些走过来但不承认我存在的人感到生气，”她在播客中分享道。“然后我 [意识到] 他们正在给我上一课，这与他们是否看到我无关。我看到我了吗？我对我可见吗？”
 
As she explained, "It's not about other people seeing you, it's about you seeing yourself. And that took me a really long time, a really long time to learn."
正如她解释的那样，“这不是让别人看到你，而是让你看到你自己。我花了很长时间，很长时间才学会。”