Are you surrounded by lovelorn singles, but still can’t seem to make a love connection? Try this.

You Will Need

A pleasant personality
A willingness to try new things
And a little courage

Step 1: Get involved in campus activities（积极参加课外活动）
Get involved in campus activities that interest you. You’ll have fun and meet like-minded people.

Step 2: Multi-task in class（找机会搭讪）
Multi-task in class. If there’s someone you’re interested in, make sure to look nice, try to sit near them, and come up with an excuse to talk to them.

If you’re interested in someone who belongs to a fraternity or sorority, make sure to attend all of its open functions.

Step 3: Throw a 'potluck' party（举办联谊会）
Throw a “potluck” party at your dorm—only guests have to bring a savory friend rather than a dish.

Step 4: Vary your routine（经常改变自己的路线）
Vary your routine. If you always eat lunch at the same time and always walk the same route to class, you’re going to see—yup—the same people every day.

Step 5: Strike up conversations（主动搭话）
Strike up conversations. Imagine how many hook-ups never take place simply because both parties were too shy to say something.

Don’t only chat up people you’re attracted to—you know never who might have a cute friend they could introduce you to!

Step 6: Get real（实事求是，如果你不是安吉丽娜，就不要希望能遇到一个皮特）
Get real. Trophy wives aside, most people marry someone of about the same attractiveness. So if you’re no Angelina Jolie, don’t pin all your hopes on Brad Pitt, and vice versa.

Step 7: Transfer to Seattle（跨校寻找机会）
If all else fails, transfer to Seattle. One study rated it the number one place to hook up out of 80 cities in the U.S.