我们都希望自己的男友可以想出美妙的终极约会之夜。不幸的是，他们并不总是非常有想象力，而且他们认为的很美好的约会之夜并不总是和你所认为的相同。
The first thing to do is to have a chat about date nights – what you both consider romantic, as well as things you think would be fun to explore together, be it hiking, or going to a museum. If you don’t know what you like it’s hard to create dates around it.
首先要做的事情就是，双方要对约会之夜谈一谈自己的想法——你们都认为浪漫的事情，以及你们认为可以一起探索的有趣的事情，无论是徒步旅行，还是去博物馆。如果你不知道自己喜欢什么，那就很难创造出美妙的约会之夜。
Secondly, you can start alternating with who comes up with what to do for the date.
其次，你们可以开始轮流来想约会所做的事情的点子。
Day-to-day life can make it hard to go on elaborate dates, so most weeks you might opt for dinner at home, a restaurant, or a movie, but decide that once every other week, or once a month one of you comes up with something more lavish, be it a weekend away, a fun activity in the city, or something very special at home, like a spa night where you pamper each other, or one of you gets pampered by the other.
一天又一天的生活让我们很难总是进行很精致的约会，所以大多数的日子你或许会选择在家吃晚饭，去饭店，或者看电影，但是要每周一次或者每月一次来决定去做一些更奢华的事情，无论是周末旅行，在城市中参加有趣的活动，或者在家里做一些非常特殊的事情，比如你们放纵对方做一个SPA，或者你们其中一个人被对方纵容一下。
If you want you can also create a date night jar where you put ideas for date nights that you then pull at random, or you have one jar each and pull from each other.
如果你想你也可以制作一个约会之夜的罐子，将你约会之夜的点子放进去，然后随机抽取一个，或者你们每个人都有一个罐子，互相抽取对方罐子中的约会之夜的想法。
