假期总是美好的。然鹅,假期总是会过去的。放完假的人们常常觉得假期太短。认知心理学家Marc Wittmann认为这是典型的“假期效应”。他建议人们放缓假期脚步,更好地享受生活;放假时要避免过度计划,相反地,放慢节奏,假期会变得“更长”。
Time is a complicated phenomenon, and this is grossly simplifying things, but the gist here is this: Anything that takes you out of the moment will make the minutes feel like they’re passing more quickly. Pre-planning every last moment of your trip is nice, in a way, because it lets you go on autopilot; you don’t have to make a decision about what to do on the second afternoon of your trip, because you already know you’ve booked a harbor cruise (or whatever).
时间是一个复杂的概念,简单来说是这样的:当你不能活在当下时,会感觉时间过得很快。提前计划度假途中的每一个项目原本是明智的选择,这让你不会手忙脚乱;如果提前订好了假期第二天的观光船船票,就不用在半路上想明天要干什么。
Leaving room for spontaneity, on the other hand, means you have to think each moment through. Should you go for a walk, or have another beer? These are the important decisions that plant you firmly in the here and the now, and that makes for a trip that seems to last just a little bit longer. Alas, when on vacation – if you’re not careful – time works in the opposite way that it seems to on Tuesdays.
顺势而为,则意味着需要思考当前发生的所有事情。现在是要去散步,还是去喝啤酒?这些决定能帮助你更好地活在当下,思考当前的事情,这样假期会显得稍长一些。哎呀,一不小心,就把假期过程了星期二。