今天我们就来聊聊如何作死一段感情。
1. You are unhappy in your relationship.
你在恋情里并不开心。
If you often feel unhappy, uncomfortable, stressed, or even burdened, it's the first and most important sign you're in adestructive dead-end relationship.
如果你经常感到不开心、不舒服、有压力，甚至有负担，这是关系破裂的首个也是最重要的标志。
2. You can't be yourself
when you are with your partner.
你和你的伴侣在一起时不能做你自己。
If in your relationship you have to turn to your acting skills too often, you deprive yourself of the experience of being authentic, which holds you back from developing your relationship.
如果在你们的关系中，你不得不经常求助于你的演技，你会剥夺自己的真实，这将阻碍发展你们的关系。
3. Your partner is too controlling.
你对象管你管的太严了。
Watch out if your significant other spies on you, monitors your phone conversations, social media, and e-mail, wants you to share everything, and even demands you turn over your paycheck.
小心你身边的伴侣，对方可能会监控你的电话，社交媒体和电子邮件，希望你分享一切，甚至要求你交出薪水。
4. You live in isolation.
孤立式地一人相处。
Your loved one is trying to isolate you from your friends and family, forbids you from using your phone or car, or maybe even prevents you from finding a good job.
你的爱人正试图将你与朋友和家人隔离，禁止你使用手机或汽车，甚至可能阻止你找到一份好工作。
5. Your partner is too jealous.
你对象的嫉妒心太重。
You're dating an overly jealous and possessive freak if he or she causes big scenes in public, controls your calls, social media use, etc.
你和一个过分嫉妒和占有欲很强的人约会，那么他可能会在公共场合大闹一番，控制你的电话，社交媒体的使用等等。
You have to realize it's not love. It's a form of psychological abuse, and it shouldn't be ignored.
你必须意识到这不是爱。这是一种心理虐待，不应该被忽视。
6. Your partner always underestimates you and your achievements
你的伴侣总是低估你和你的成就。
It's time for you to leave if you often hear from your partner that you're just an ordinary person with so-so achievements. They're trying to convince you that no one will ever appreciate you, but the worst thing is that you start to believe it's true.
如果你经常听到你的伴侣说你只是一个普通的人，那么你还是离开吧。他们试图让你相信没有人会欣赏你，但最糟糕的是你开始相信这话是真的。
7. It's almost impossible to plan your future together.
几乎不可能一起计划你的未来。
If you never talk or can't ever think about your future, it's one of those signs you're in a toxic relationship.
如果你从不发表意见，或永远不思考你的未来，那你已处于一种有害的关系中了。
8. Your partner always tries to make you feel guilty.
你的伴侣总是试图让你感到内疚。
Your partner always tries to put the blame on you for what's going on with your relationship. As a result, you often feel like you have to explain something, although you shouldn't.
你的伴侣总试图把两人之间出现的问题归咎于你。因此，你经常觉得自己不得不解释一些事情，尽管你不应该解释。
9. Uncontrollable episodes of impulsive aggression.
不可控制的冲动暴力事件。
Uncontrollable impulsive aggression always leads to emotional, economic, and physical violence.
不可控制的冲动总会导致情绪、经济和身体上的暴力。
两个人相处，要互相理解珍惜尊重，毕竟以后还是要一起跳广场舞呢。可别因为一时的矫情破坏了彼此的感情。
你有木有这些小问题呢?看完今天的内容后，马上面壁，抓紧检讨~
