rub the wrong way 无意中冒犯；无意中惹恼；（无意中）惹人生气；触怒别人

【例句】
She's a very good lawyer but she does sometimes rub clients the wrong way.
她是个出色的律师，但有时候她也会无意中触怒委托人。

The arrogant player rubbed his teammates the wrong way.
这个傲慢的队员惹怒了队友。