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Wondering if the guy of your dreams dreams about you? Here’s how to find out.

 

You Will Need
Observation skills

Step 1: Limit the distance 由距离判断他是否对你有意
When you hang out, watch his body language — men lean in when speaking with a woman to establish an intimate connection. Check if his hand brushes your body, which signals familiarity and comfort.

If a guy points his feet away from you, you may not have his full attention.

Step 2: Notice the nerves 注意观察他是否紧张
Listen for rapid breathing — a natural reaction to the chance to impress a potential mate. Also, listen for laughter, which connotes comfort, and notice whether he speaks softly and slowly, which can indicate he’s letting his guard down and trying to display his gentle side.

Step 3: Look at how he listens 观察他的倾听方式
When you’re talking, see if he gazes into your eyes — it’s a sign of attraction. Does he ask questions that indicate he’s listening closely? That boy is into you.

If his eyes focus on your mouth, he might be avoiding eye contact, which might mean he isn’t interested.

Step 4: Find out from friends 从朋友那里获得蜘丝马迹
Get psyched if he asks you to hang out with his friends — it means he’s proud to be with you. When he meets your friends, see if he tries to impress them — if he’s into you, he’ll know their opinions matter.

Step 5: Get to the bottom of it 直接发问，弄清真相
Uncomfortable relying on your powers of perception? Just ask him if he’s into you — it may feel like some of the romance is gone, but you’ll get your answer.

An experiment found that men looked into the eyes of women they considered beautiful for an average of 8.2 seconds.

 

[重点讲解]

intimate adj. 亲密的；私人的

intimate relationship： 亲密的关系

gaze vi. 凝视；注视

She turned her gaze from one person to the other.

她把凝视的目光从一个人转向另一个人。

impress vt. 给予某人深刻印象

She did not impress me at all.

她没给我留下丝毫印象。