1. When "Mom I want to have this" changed to "Mom, what would you like to eat?"

当“妈，我想要这个嘛”变成“妈，你想吃点啥？”

2. When your parents start asking you, "are you free on this particular day?"

当你的父母开始问你：“你今天有空吗？”

3. When you realize you have no other option than being strong.

当你意识到除了变强别无选择时。

4. When your close friends start using formal tone.

当你的密友和你说话的语气开始变得客套生硬。

5. When you can tell your story, and it doesn't make you cry. You know you have healed.

当你讲述往事，不会因它而哭泣的时候。你知道自己已经痊愈。

6. When your birthday excites you no more.

当你不会因为过生日而感到兴奋时。

7. When "May I come in?" changes to "Yes you can come in."

当“我可以进来吗”变成“请进”时。

8. When people start searching for you on Google instead of Facebook.

当人们用谷歌来搜寻你的信息而不是用脸书时。

9. When the first letter you type on opening a browser is "q" instead of "f"...

当打开浏览器，你输入的第一个字母是“q(uora)”而不是“f(acebook)”时。

（译注：Quora是一个问答SNS网站，Facebook（脸书）是创办于美国的一个社交网络服务网站。）

10. The first time you really fall in love, maybe have your heart broken and learn that you will survive.

第一次真正爱上一个人，你也许会受伤，但之后也会懂得，最终你总是能挺过去的。

11. The first time you actually hear a bird sing, a baby cry, a river run, a leaf rustle, or a single note on the wind and it moves you to tears.

当你第一次真正注意到到鸟儿歌唱、婴儿啼哭、流水潺潺、树叶沙沙作响，或是风中飘来的一个音符，并且让你感动落泪的时候。

12. The first time you understand that the earth does not revolve around you.

当你第一次知道世界不是围着你转的时候。

13. The first time you truly understand the meaning of "If you have your health, you have everything".

当你第一次真正领悟到“你若拥有健康，你就拥有一切”的真谛。

14. The first time you realize the money doesn't buy happiness, because no matter how much stuff you put in that hole we all carry around, it will never be enough.

当你第一次意识到钱不能买来幸福，因为我们每个人都欲壑难填。

15. The first time you realize that money can buy happiness because you finally understand what the word happiness means. I won't tell you what it means, only that it doesn't start with Lamborghini or end with Gucci.

当你第一次意识到钱可以买来幸福，因为你终于理解了幸福的含义。我不会告诉你它的含义，但它不始于兰博基尼(Lamborghini)，亦不止于古驰（Gucci）。

16. The first time you understand that there is no separation between you and anyone else. Race doesn't matter, skin color doesn't matter, belief system doesn't matter, age doesn't matter, sex doesn't matter—we are all one, traveling through this crazy world, hoping for the same things.

当你第一次知道你和任何人之间都没有不同。种族、肤色、信仰、年龄、性别统统都不重要——我们都是一样的，在这疯狂的世界旅行，希冀着同样的事情。