我离开了那儿开始了节食，因为我意识到不管他对我有多好，我们假装有多么的亲密，他只是没那么喜欢我，而且我想要的更多。
IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE GREG
如果你不相信格雷格
Twenty out of the twenty men polled said, withouthesitation (well, it was all done by e-mail, but they all seemed really sure about it) , that theyhave never been really into a woman who they didn't want to have sex with.
20个接受调查的男人一致毫不犹豫的说(调查通过邮件，但是他们看起来非常的肯定)，他们从不和不喜欢的女人做爱。
One man wrote in, "What? ! Excuse me? ! And the point is? !"
一个男人写道，“什么?再说一遍?!这什么意思!”
What You Should Have Learned in This Chapter
你应在本章学到的
People tell you who they are all the time. When a man says he can't be monogamous, youshould believe him.
人们一直在对你诠释自己。当一个男人说他不遵循一夫一妻制的时候，你应该相信他。
Companionship is wonderful, but companionship with sex is even better.
陪伴很棒，但是有性的陪伴更完美。
Call a spade a spade or, more fittingly, a friend a friend, and go find yourself a friend that can'tkeep his hands off you.
有话直说，更恰当的说法是，朋友就是朋友，去给自己找一个无法把手从你身上拿开的朋友吧。
Your lost self-esteem may take longer to find than a new boyfriend, so prioritize accordingly.
失去的尊严会比找一个新男友更难找回，所以制定好优先等级吧。
If you're tempted to spend countless nights just cuddling with someone, buy a puppy.
如果你忍得住只是和一个人抱着度过日日夜夜，那不妨买只宠物。
There's someone out there that does want to have sex with you, hot stuff.
会有人想跟你做爱的，美人儿。
Our Super-Good Really Helpful Excises
我们超级棒的真实有用的练习
Imagine that in your minds have a big flag. Now imagine color it in with a big crayon.
想象一下你脑海里有一面旗帜。想象自己用一支大蜡笔上色。
Now, you have a big red flag. Good, because that's what a man not wanting to have sex withyou is.
现在你有一面红旗。很好，因为那就是一个不想跟你做爱的男人。
Now clear your head and go get yourself some good loving.
现在清空你的大脑，给自己找寻幸福的下一春吧。
