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A friend of mine was on a first date with a womanwho mentioned she was also dating a married man.
我一个朋友和一个女人第一次约会，她同时在和一个已婚男人约会。
He immediately told her there wouldn't be a seconddate, because if she didn't like herself enough to bein a proper relationship, why should he?
他马上告诉她，不会有第二次见面，因为如果她这么不自爱，不想好好谈一场恋爱，他为什么要呢?
What You Should Have Learned in This Chapter
你应从本章中学到什么
He's married.
他结婚了。
Unless he's all yours, he's still hers.
除非他是你的了，要不然他还是她的。
There are cool, loving single men in the world. Find one of them to go out with.
世上有不少可爱的单身好男人。跟他们其中一个出去约会。
If a guy is yelling about his ex-wife or crying over his last girlfriend, try to find someone else totake you to the movies.
如果一个家伙不停地在抱怨他的前妻，或哭着说他的上一个女友，去找别人和你看电影吧。
He's married.
他结婚了。
Don't be that girl.
别做那个女孩。
You are not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he's ready.
你没那么容易忘记。让他准备好了再来找你。
Our Super-Good Really Helpful Exercise
我们超级有用的练习
Think of at least five things you want or have ever wanted in a man. We'll wait...
列出至少五项你对一个男人所有的期待。我们会耐心等待…
Now, did "married" or "emotionally unavailable" make that list?
好，“已婚”或“情感上不可得”在单子上吗?
Yeah, we didn't think so. You're far too classy and smart for that.
我们不认为它在。你比这可要更有品位，也更聪明。
